For 77-year-old Vijay Kumari of Lucknow, September is a month filled with memories and pride. Her husband, Major Dhirendra Singh, was awarded the Vir Chakra for his bravery in the 1965 India-Pakistan war. Despite being injured in the war, he displayed courage and valor, which his wife still remembers with pride. Major Dhirendra Singh was only 25 years old when he fought on the Kashmir front in 1965. His leg was severely injured and had to be amputated after a bomb exploded.
Major Dhirendra Singh did not lose heart and silenced the enemy’s cannons. For this bravery, he was awarded the Vir Chakra, the third-highest gallantry award in the country. Vijay Kumari recalls that communication at the time was limited, and she received information about her husband’s injury through a letter. On September 23, 1965, when she was at her parents’ home in Gorakhpur, a letter from the Commanding Officer of the 3rd Battalion (Rifles) of the Kumaon Regiment reached her in-laws’ house, informing her of the incident.
Major Dhirendra Singh’s life changed completely after the war. In 1966, he received an artificial leg and was posted to Lucknow. However, in 1971, he was declared medically unfit and had to leave the army. Despite this, he never gave up and always inspired his children. His dream was for his son to serve in the army, and his joy knew no bounds when he reached the passing out parade.
Vijay Kumari says that her husband was mentally very strong. Despite the artificial leg, he used to drive a scooter, car, and even a tractor. He believed that one should not bow down to difficulties. When Major Singh passed away in Delhi in April 2025, it was a very difficult time for Vijay Kumari, but his valor and courage will always remain an inspiration for his family.